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  1. Above the Best
    Above the Best

  2. Odyssey: Coming of Age in World War II
    Odyssey: Coming of Age in World War II

  3. A Voice from the Main Deck: Being a Record of the Thirty Years' Adventures of Samuel Leech (Classics of Naval Literature)
    A Voice from the Main Deck: Being a Record of the Thirty Years' Adventures of Samuel Leech (Classics of Naval Literature)

  4. Prisoner of War and Peace
    Prisoner of War and Peace

  5. Pilot from the Prairie
    Pilot from the Prairie

  6. Tales of a Tankman: Between the Battles
    Tales of a Tankman: Between the Battles

  7. In the Shadow of Nelson: The Naval Leadership of Admiral Sir Charles Cotton, 1753-1812 (Contributions in Military Studies)
    In the Shadow of Nelson: The Naval Leadership of Admiral Sir Charles Cotton, 1753-1812 (Contributions in Military Studies)

  8. A Boy Without Toys
    A Boy Without Toys

  9. A POW's Memoir of the First World War : The Other Ordeal (Legacy of the Great War)
    A POW's Memoir of the First World War : The Other Ordeal (Legacy of the Great War)

  10. Suck a Rock: The Personal Story of One Soldier With a Worm's Eye View from a Foxhole in World War II
    Suck a Rock: The Personal Story of One Soldier With a Worm's Eye View from a Foxhole in World War II

  11. Sacrificial Lambs
    Sacrificial Lambs

  12. Memories from the Out House Mouse: The Personal Diaries of One B-17 Crew
    Memories from the Out House Mouse: The Personal Diaries of One B-17 Crew

  13. With the Gordon Highlanders to the Boer War and Beyond
    With the Gordon Highlanders to the Boer War and Beyond

  14. Letters from a Soldier: 1941-1945
    Letters from a Soldier: 1941-1945

  15. Ceremonies of the Horsemen
    Ceremonies of the Horsemen

  16. Fast Track to Manhood
    Fast Track to Manhood

  17. Thomas ap Catesby Jones: Commodore of Manifest Destiny (Library of Naval Biography Series)
    Thomas ap Catesby Jones: Commodore of Manifest Destiny (Library of Naval Biography Series)

  18. Walk a Mile in My Shoes
    Walk a Mile in My Shoes

  19. Freedom or Death
    Freedom or Death

  20. Midshipman in Gray: Selections from Recollections of a Rebel Reefer
    Midshipman in Gray: Selections from Recollections of a Rebel Reefer

  21. Kinkaid of the Seventh Fleet: A Biography of Admiral Thomas C. Kinkaid, U.S. Navy
    Kinkaid of the Seventh Fleet: A Biography of Admiral Thomas C. Kinkaid, U.S. Navy

  22. B*U*F*F: Big Ugly Fat F
    B*U*F*F: Big Ugly Fat F

  23. Life in the Foreign Service Diplomatic Corps
    Life in the Foreign Service Diplomatic Corps

  24. The Badge of Gallantry: Letters from Civil War Medal of Honor Winners
    The Badge of Gallantry: Letters from Civil War Medal of Honor Winners

  25. A Bucket of Prop Wash: From Poverty to Silver Wings
    A Bucket of Prop Wash: From Poverty to Silver Wings

The Dance of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • good solid Harriet Lerner
  • Very Good
  • Fear not the fear
  • awesome book
  • look at your shadows
The Dance of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self
Harriet Lerner
Manufacturer: Harper Paperbacks
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0060081589
Release Date: 2005-05-03

Book Description

Topselling author Harriet Lerner is at her provocative best in this well-received examination of fear, anxiety, and shame, the three key emotions that she believes cause all unhappiness. 

Using her wonderfully rich and inviting therapeutic voice, along with personal memories and examples drawn from her practice, Lerner gives fear and its accompanying negative emotions, anxiety and shame, their due. 

Anxiety, fear and shame can wash over us like a tidal wave or operate as a silent thrum under the surface of our daily lives. With stories that are sometimes hilarious and sometimes heart-breaking, Lerner takes us from 'fear-lite' and mild anxiety to deep dread, shame and terror. 

No-one signs up for anxiety, fear and shame, but we can't avoid them, either. The more we can look these emotions in the eye, with patience and curiosity, and the more we learn to spot their wisdom and mischief, the less grip they have on us. As we learn to respond to the three key emotions in new ways, we can live more fully in the present and move into the future with courage, clarity, humour and hope.
 

 

 

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars good solid Harriet Lerner.......2007-06-14

I read this book after having read The Dance of Intimacy several months ago. The Dance of Intimacy was like a huge wake-up call for me, whereas this book was very interesting and helpful, just not as earth-shattering. I am generally an anxious person, and I did learn a little bit about living with my anxiety and not making it worse. But I didn't connect with all the stories the way I did with the previous Lerner book I read. I still think Harriet Lerner is an amazing insightful woman. I'm glad that I read and bought this book, but maybe my expectations were a little too high. I would give the book 3 1/2 stars if I could.

4 out of 5 stars Very Good.......2007-01-29

Great book and good way to understand how to manage your anxieties and fears. This book will not make your fears go away, but rather enable you to work with them. A pratical approach.

5 out of 5 stars Fear not the fear.......2006-12-31

A wonderfully written and highly applicable book that highlights the importance of tuning into fear, anxiety, and shame for the underlying wisdom and guidance they provide, instead of simply seeing them as unbearable emotions to avoid at all costs. This book is bound to be helpful for anyone whose fear and anxiety make them prisoners of their home, workplace, and inner thoughts.

5 out of 5 stars awesome book.......2006-11-01

Anxiety, panice attack and depression, these are all clinical problems that sometimes need medication, but you can't get a complete cure unless you remove the sourse of them. You need to increase your wisdom to better see the problem. I found this book amazing in this job. You can feel the ocean of wisdom in her words.

5 out of 5 stars look at your shadows.......2006-01-02

Rebeccasreads highly recommends THE DANCE OF FEAR as book about the tangled tango of life with people -- sometimes you lead & sometimes you follow, & if you know what makes you tick, who's doing what isn't nearly as important as who's in charge of you, & that talking it out is the one thing that really helps.

Dr. Lerner doesn't write trite self-help hand books, the questions she asks & the answers people give her set the scene for her articulate insights. Take time to read THE DANCE OF FEAR because it's about what these emotions are, how we behave because of them, what harm happens when we don't know what's driving us, & how we react to events, great & small, that have us frozen in the headlights or hiding away from life.
Personal Best: Chasing the Wind Above And Below the Equator
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    Personal Best: Chasing the Wind Above And Below the Equator
    Edward Muesch
    Manufacturer: Virtualbookworm.com Publishing
    ProductGroup: Book
    Binding: Paperback

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    ASIN: 1589398394

    Book Description

    "Personal Best, Chasing the Wind Above and Below the Equator" is more than a sailing adventure. It's the story of one man's drive to realize his dream. Never being satisfied with the ordinary Ed, he drops in and out of an engineering career to be a farmer in the mountains of North Carolina. After several years he re-enters the corporate world and has a rich and rewarding career with a major U.S. corporation. Always, he strives to do "his personal best." Finally it's time for his dream to be realized. He and his wife will sail around the world. Sail with them as they experience the wonders, triumphs, and difficulties of living their dream. Storms, breakdowns, personal loss, and a miraculous escape from drowning in the 2004 Tsunami in Thailand serve as the backdrop to seeing the wonders of the world and meeting the people who are a part of it.

    AUTHOR BIO: Edward Muesch was born in New Jersey and spent his childhood years growing up in Phoenix, Arizona. Ed's background in mechanical engineering led to a successful career as a Director of Engineering for a major U.S. corporation. His technical papers and sailing articles have appeared in several publications and he has appeared on several talk shows. Ed took early retirement in 2001 to fulfill his lifelong dream of sailing around the world. Ed and his wife, Helen, live on their Hans Christian ketch, presently in the Mediterranean and have a flat in Margarita, Venezuela.

    Waters Above the Firmament (The Best of Stonehenge Viewpoint)
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      Waters Above the Firmament (The Best of Stonehenge Viewpoint)
      Donald L. Cyr Editor
      Manufacturer: Stonehenge Viewpoint
      ProductGroup: Book
      Binding: Paperback
      ASIN: B000F4SO86

      Product Description

      From the Introduction: "Waters abvoe the Firmament" was first published over one hundred years ago in the Spring of 1874 by Isaac N. Vail. As as sentimental gesture, the entire "tract" is republished herewith. In his later writings Vail considered that the canopy would contain a myriad of ice crystals causing spectacular halos that were seen by ancient peoples. This original idea has ramifacations that are improtant even in our own day. Some of Vail's other ideas may appear quaint to the minds of sophisticates, but to underestimate the imortance of Vail's basic theme would be a grave mistake. -Editor
      Underground gardens & homes: The best of two worlds, above and below
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        Underground gardens & homes: The best of two worlds, above and below
        Jay Swayze
        Manufacturer: Geobuilding Systems
        ProductGroup: Book
        Binding: Unknown Binding

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        ASIN: B0006E2468
        Best Sellers From Readers Digest Condensed Books (The Gift Of The Deer,At Ease:Stories I tell to Friends,The Town And Dr. Moore,Airs Above The Ground, First edition)
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          Best Sellers From Readers Digest Condensed Books (The Gift Of The Deer,At Ease:Stories I tell to Friends,The Town And Dr. Moore,Airs Above The Ground, First edition)

          Manufacturer: The Readers Digest Association Inc
          ProductGroup: Book
          Binding: Hardcover
          ASIN: B000FBL3V4

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          At Ease:stories I tell to Friends By Dwight D eisenhower,The Former President of the United States here reveals,in an informal and delightful way,the events which shaped his life. 3 other delighful stories in this condensed version by Readers Digest 1968
          Bulk candy: basics are the best way to 'bulk up'--but above all, keep the section clean and pristine.(Industry Overview) : An article from: Confectioner
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            Bulk candy: basics are the best way to 'bulk up'--but above all, keep the section clean and pristine.(Industry Overview) : An article from: Confectioner

            Manufacturer: Thomson Gale
            ProductGroup: Book
            Binding: Digital
            ASIN: B000EXDUIC
            Release Date: 2006-03-08

            Book Description

            This digital document is an article from Confectioner, published by Thomson Gale on January 1, 2006. The length of the article is 479 words. The page length shown above is based on a typical 300-word page. The article is delivered in HTML format and is available in your Amazon.com Digital Locker immediately after purchase. You can view it with any web browser.

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            Title: Bulk candy: basics are the best way to 'bulk up'--but above all, keep the section clean and pristine.(Industry Overview)
            Publication: Confectioner (Magazine/Journal)
            Date: January 1, 2006
            Publisher: Thomson Gale
            Volume: 91 Issue: 1 Page: 20(1)

            Article Type: Industry Overview

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            An ark for all God's Noahs in a gloomy, stormy day: Or, The best wine reservd till last : or, The transcendent excellency of a believer's portion above all earthly portions whatsoever
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              An ark for all God's Noahs in a gloomy, stormy day: Or, The best wine reservd till last : or, The transcendent excellency of a believer's portion above all earthly portions whatsoever
              Thomas Brooks
              Manufacturer: Published by J. Pounder ; J. Rakestraw, printer
              ProductGroup: Book
              Binding: Unknown Binding

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              ASIN: B00087CNK0
              The Fifties/Den of Lions/Above Suspicion/Wings of the Morning (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 28: 1994)
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                The Fifties/Den of Lions/Above Suspicion/Wings of the Morning (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 28: 1994)
                David Halberstam , Terry Anderson , Joe Sharkey , and Orestes Lorenzo & E. K. Max
                Manufacturer: Reader's Digest Association
                ProductGroup: Book
                Binding: Hardcover
                ASIN: B000GHESVO
                Best Sellers-Airs Above the Ground, The Town and Dr. Moore, The Gift of the Deer, At Ease (Reader's Digest)
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                  Best Sellers-Airs Above the Ground, The Town and Dr. Moore, The Gift of the Deer, At Ease (Reader's Digest)
                  Various Artist
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                  Binding: Hardcover
                  ASIN: B000BUC9NK
                  Above the Best
                  Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
                  • Love of flight makes for reluctant heroes
                  Above the Best
                  Nicholas Vega
                  Manufacturer: Trafford Publishing
                  ProductGroup: Book
                  Binding: Paperback

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                  ASIN: 1553952324
                  Release Date: 2006-07-06

                  Book Description



                  The challenge was difficult, many applied, few were accepted.

                  Those accepted were not guaranteed to pass. Few graduated, only to face the reality of war.

                  Southeast Asia was the battlefield of many consequences. Survival meant other sacrifices as well as team spirit. Seven young Warrant Officer Candidates managed to graduate only to find themselves in the perils of war not of their choosing but because of their love of flying.

                  Customer Reviews:

                  5 out of 5 stars Love of flight makes for reluctant heroes.......2004-04-12

                  I touching story about how regular individuals, because of their situation, find themselves undertaking extraordinary feats. Carrying out otherwise unthinkable acts of heroism, not because of their love of war, but perhaps just the opposite; their bonds of loyalty and friendship, and the impossible hope that they might all live through the horror that is war.
                  I would suggest this book to anybody interested in the topics of: aviation, history, warfare, etc.

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